People Read Strangers’ Worst Heartbreaks

– “My boyfriend cheated on me
with my cousin about 3 years ago. They’re still together and I have to
see them at every family gathering.” Aw, that’s so messed up! – “I have loved the same
girl for the past 6 years. I see her from time to
time and we fool around, but to me, it’s more than that. I’ve been feeling the same
heartbreak for 6 years.” – “I dated a guy for almost 2 years. I was so in love with him,
I changed myself to his liking, not realizing that he
never felt the same for me. He dumped me, and when I ask why,
he refuses to tell me. He left me in the dark to this very day.” I can relate to that one. I had someone do something very
similar to me when I was in college. Ended up getting back
with his old fiancée. Didn’t tell me about it. I wish I wouldn’t have put so
much of the blame on myself, because at the end of the day,
it was something going on with him. I feel like so many people are so
hard on themselves in relationships. – “I was in a long-distance relationship. Everything I felt was real,
and I believed it was real for him, too. We each kept a journal to write letters,
and when we saw each other again, we would read them
out loud to each other. It was something special. But his friends didn’t
believe in our relationship, and pressured him to burn his journal. They recorded it, and sent the
video to me,” Jesus Christ… “It was tormenting and traumatizing.” I’m astounded by the cruelty… exhibited by people sometimes, like… You are far better off not being
associated with them at all, whatsoever, because it’s going to take years for this person and their friends
to discover what is at the root of their own pain that’s causing them to, like,
want to hurt other people this way, but you dodged a bullet here, I think. – “My worst heartbreak would have to be when my
great-grandma passed away 5 days before my 24th birthday. I usually get a picture with her every
year for my birthday, but not this year.” – “My father was never a religious man, but when he had liver cancer
and was at the hour of his death, I saw him pray to a god. I had never seen him so scared in his life,
and it broke my heart.” – “My best friend died in a car crash. My last words to her were,
‘I never want to see you again.’ It will continue to haunt
me for the rest of my life. I wish in her final moments,
she knew how much she meant to me, and how much she changed
my life for the better.” I think that,
that makes me want to, like, call up, like,
some of my friends and be like, “Dude, like, I love you.
Like, do you know that?” They’re probably gonna be like,
“What are you talking about?” But, like… really, just… letting them know.

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  2. My dog had her last breathe on my lap. It still crushes my heart that I can't do anything for her anymore but to see her suffer. I do really hope she appreciated the last hour of her life with me.

  3. I am in love with the same person for almost 12 years since I was in elementary school. We sometime get separated bcs of we were doing our own things, but we always ended up finding each other all over again. I always had dreams about him every single month to this day. We both knew that we had feelings for each other we both know that either him or I always in our priority list of each other but we never really together. He is very religious and very wealthy and i am the opposite of that.

  4. My worst heartbreak was when my grandfather died. I knew that he passed away all along and my brother didnt know. He thought our grandfather was alive and we were gonna meet him that day. I put my happiest mask on all day so my brother wouldnt undertsand. That evening we cried together the whole ride to our grandmother's house. Holding those emotions for hours was the toughest thing i have ever done. I was 12, my brother was 10.

  5. I feel so bad for the person who had her bf cheat on her with her cousin. Who ever are you, you are better than both of those assholes put together.

  6. i was in love with a man who got hooked on meth 2 years into our relationship. he assaulted me, broke my nose and teeth. i never saw him again.

  7. I think that all people should tell their friends how much they care, cause maybe it could save their lives.

  8. My worst breakup was..
    Me and my ex girlfriend had an on and off relationship ship. But when it finally stopped instead of her Telling me her friend had to do it.

  9. When my father told me that I could never have a girlfriend ( I'm a girl) while living under the same roof as him. ( It really hurt because I thought he was supportive and helped him with everything because my brother's left and we live on a farm)

  10. My worst heartbreak was when my best friend and I had a massive fight and we “broke up” I hated her so much but losing her was worse than any relationship breakup I could imagine.

    She was always there when I needed her, she was the only friend I made in highschool and for a couple years after. I didn’t care that she was my only friend because she was all I needed
    8 months of hating your best friend is the worst kind of pain :/
    We ended up talking again and worked everything out and are better than before.

    I wanted to delete every picture of her, I got angry at people whenever I heard her name, I moved town back to my family to get away from it all, and everything.

    Now I’m SO glad I didn’t delete the pictures of her/with her. My reasoning was because it was a happy time, and I’ll have the memories in my mind so I should still have the photos to remember the fun time

  11. Finding out my girl was gonna have a baby boy then a month later have him pass away. Been five years and I still cry for him. What could've been

  12. "Its alright, dry your eyes, send a prayer, to the sky, I know that its hard to fight. But you must believe that it gets better"
    ~ Better by An Artiste I Dont Remember The Name Of

  13. I had my first heart break and it's horrible every time the 29th comes by i get so sad that i wont be with that person again.😞

  14. i feel like i have betrayed my parents.

    they have told me that it is ok to be gay a million times but im still afriad to come out.

  15. Was in a 5 year relationship. 1.5 years together and 3.5 ldr. He was an international student so he had to go home to el Salvador. I'm from the states. I wanted to get married so that he could have a greencard. He thought I was too young and didn't want my family to think he was using me. After 2 years, he moved to ireland for work. We saw each other 2 times a year. We were great in the beginning and then the past year all we did was fight. We hurt each other with our words. We couldn't fix it since we weren't in the same location. He told me he was gonna propose to me last year when we came to visit, but we got into a huge fight. We were trying to fix things, but they aren't things that can be fixed through distance. We were at a standstill and I fell out of love. I really wanted to prove that long distance worked. I'm still heartbroken about it. I still care for him, but it's just not the same like how it used to be.

  16. in my first relationship, i didnt know the difference between manipulation and love. I thought what she and i had was love, but it wasnt. It never was

  17. My worst heartbreak was the day my mom signed her rights away for me, but not my brother. And when I asked her about it later, she said she and him had a special bond because he was her first kid. I was lost.

  18. mine was when my grandpa died before i got to visit him in mexico i hadn’t seen him for 2 years now i’ll never get to:(

  19. It’s crazy that this stuff breaks people hearts, I mean I can understand it, but as for someone who is sensitive, a 4 year friendship along with a 1 year relationship, breaks me such a verbal abusive relationship, so much things have been told to me, no one should have to go through that much pain so I wish my story was on this video.

  20. People consider this a heart break??. A heart break is an incident that is so difficult to handle that you suppress every random thought which could possibly connect your thought process to the memory. It’s at the back of your head constantly and you are always aware and alert not to by mistake think about it.. for years.. you know you will not survive if you even let the memory come to the foreground… always alert.. you wake up forcibly before your dreams lead you to the memory..

  21. That last one is why I always make sure to tell my friends and family how much I love them every chance I get. You never know when everything can turn upside-down and I never want to live my life wondering if the last thing someone I cared about heard me say to them was so negative (no blame to the person whose story that was. It’s not their fault, it never was, and it never will be. I hope one day they will be able to get through that and stop feeling that sense of guilt).

  22. They should've read the line of All Too Well that goes "maybe we got lost in translation, maybe I asked for too much, but maybe this thing was a masterpiece and you tore it all up. Hey you called me up again just to break me like a promise, so casually cruel in the name of being honest" that is a very heartbreak line

  23. I'm still with my husband but I'm never gonna trust him. Cause his always gonna unfaithful to me . I can't leave Cause I have a son. I love him so much. And I don't know why maybe it cause I'm weak…

  24. When my mom called me selfish. It was on the same day I bought her a perfume …my mom's face was the first thing that came to my mind when I saw it and she called me selfish that day because we were fighting about something else…that hurt…I cried a lot that day and I still do cry everytime I think about it.
    Words do please be careful with what you say.

  25. My worst heartbreak: I got sick with mono and we couldn't kiss for some time and after just a couple of weeks she ignored me for 10 days while we were on separate vacations with our families. I found out she wants to break up through her bff…She found a new guy within days and claims this Summer was her best ever…I thought the 8 months together meant more to her…

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  27. My biggest heart break is when i had a bpyfriend, we were an interatial couple i love so much he tells me he loves me everday(i could only see him for the summer i live in the us he lives in canada)he so nic and sweat his mom hase every kind of cancer and his dad left her when he found out about that she had cancer,(me and meat on the street) i never knew canadians was so kind until i meat him. We were the power couple.when i came back to the u.s i had a phone call they said he was in the hospital.,i cryed and i told my mom i haded to go back because i forgot somthing and i did went back i quickly went to the hospital and just hugged him,i kissed him i ask the docters what happen, they said he have cancer i cryed so much i went to him and told him "why u did not tell me" he said i would of left him, i curled up next to him holding him as tight as i can, i kept repeting "ilove u " to him and he told me dont tell his mom and after 21 day or 2 next to him he had a heart attck and his final words was "i love u" and he died before my eyes those times i cryied so much

    Everyday i think of him i miss him somtime i think of killing myself just to meet him againand ending the pain but he did told me not to do that before he died

    The other thing is that i was blaimed for his death cuz they said when he did not meet me hewas fine but now he died because of me

    And that hunts me everyday cuz it could have been mu fault if he did nlt meet me he would have still been alive

    But i do know it my fault and im unlucky to be around anybody

  28. I’m some weird way I actually like going through the comments and reading everyone’s comment, obviously I feel bad for them but it makes u think of ur life

  29. my first heartbreak was when i found out i had a sister and a brother, but they both died. it sucked more for the sister because i always wanted an older sister as a child.

    im still not over it.

  30. My bf left me just by saying the reason that…

    I am taller than him! It broke my heart much because I loved him very much, if I am smaller he might love me now:(

  31. My worst heartbreak was my mom passing away a few days after my 16th birthday. She made me her first ever cheesecake because she saw how I was a little upset that the store near us no longer sold anymore strawberry cheesecakes, so she decided to make her own..she was sick for as long as I can remember, but she was always there for me, even when I didn't see it. She stayed at the hospital and I thought to myself she'll be alright, she always comes back home, then we were picked up by a family friend who took us to the hospital to only see my dad there and the nurses surrounding him, my heart knew right away when we were picked up from our house what was going on but my mind wanted to convince my heart that it wasn't true, I had a lot of mix feelings of confusion, sadness, and hate of what was going on..I didn't know how to cope with this "new" pain, it felt like the whole world had just completely stopped. I felt like I was also the worst son because I never acknowledged everything she had done for myself and my sister..She loved us even when we felt like we "hated" her..The late nights she would stay up helping me with my homework, all of my soccer games and practices she would go and support me through, my first ever breakup she helped me through, and so much more..I had never acknowledged any of it until the minute I saw her lifeless body laying in the hospital bed.
    This was also the first time I had seen my dad ever cry.
    It's been 8 years since then, and I still miss her everyday, and it gets harder to remember her voice..I just wish I had been able to tell her how much I love and miss her.

    – Sorry for the extremely long comment, it was meant to be really short and simple..but I went all in

  32. I'm experiencing a heartbreak right now. I have the biggest crush on my best friend but she has a crush on my other best friend (who I talk to about MY crush). its the worst feeling ever knowing the one person i turn to for advice is the one she has a crush on

  33. when we both love each other but his parents are against us coz of cultural differences. his mom begged him not to pursue our relationship coz her mom was already old & would suffer a lot & will be more outcast in their family. idk it was too complicated.
    wish everyone has freedom to love someone they love.

  34. My worst heartbreak is , i didnt call my father the day he passed away .Mom said, He was waiting for my call a few hour before he suddenly fainted and gone. I was in another city and the last time i hug and saw him was on March. He passed away on 24th of july 😔

  35. It’s going down with the boyfriend and Cousin every time every time I see them! Even in my peripheral life vision 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

  36. I heard once, that you draw in the kind of love that you think you deserve. I must need some serious counseling, because all of my relationships have been utter shi*.
    My first love ended up being married and took off one night to fly back to his home state (he was fresh out of the marines). I ended up contacting his Mom so I can find out what happened to him. That’s when she told me he was married and had a new baby.
    My ex-husband cheated on me so openly that when I had our baby he brought his girlfriend up to my hospital room and tried to pass her off as his friend’s girlfriend. He was disgusting.
    My husband of 15 years just recently told me that he has no interest in sex. I’m sure what he means is sex with me. Told me to buy a vibrator since he says they were invented by a housewife. I’m so over relationships. I just want to live a quiet life and raise my girls.

  37. I courted her for a year
    She‘s my first love
    We made plans for our future

    But one day she just “ ghosted “ on me.

    Then i found out she finally have chosen her friend over me.

    I knew it was coming. What i didnt know is that 3 years after

    The pain of abandonment is still there.

  38. My grandpa would tell in the beginning of every school year he promised to see me graduate highschool he passed away on my first day of this school year 💔😭

  39. I don’t usually share stuff like this, but I’m in the middle of the worst heartbreak and time of my life.

    I loved a girl. I still do. I asked her to marry me by putting hundreds of candles floating on the lakeshore and hanging on the beach. She and I were so in love. Of course we had our differences and difficulties, but everything was so great that they just didn’t matter. We find out that she is pregnant, and we are both ecstatic. I’ve always wanted to be a dad, and now, with the girl of my dreams, we are starting a family.

    I think after a little while it all just started to hit her. She says she isn’t sure if she loves me. She says we are too different. 60 to 0 in what, for me, was no time to brace myself. I would still go to the moon and back for this girl, and our child, but somehow, she regrets ever dating me. I was just a phase, a convincing lie, told to herself. How can all of that love and good memory be passed off as a lie, a pseudo-memory? I don’t understand.

    I am still so excited to be a father. But even half of that will be taken from me, as the love of my life broke up with me, and for the first time, I don’t even have myself to blame.

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